Someday Isn’t a Day of the Week

Good morning, in a very happy Friday to all of you. We've made it to the end of the week. I'm excited to close out this incredible week with our guest, Doctor Albert Bamonte, has been here all week giving us just tons of great guidance. Again, a quick reminder, if you want to know more about doctor Bremonte's work, you can find his stuff at Albertbamonte dot com. That is Albert Bramante dot com. A lot of great stuff there on his web page. But reach out to him if you're looking for a partner or just want another chance to talk with somebody who's got some great insights. As he has shared this week, we have talked about networking, We've talked about overcoming fear and building resilience in Today, doctor Bremonte is going to bring it all together by talking about a very powerful concept, and that is taking action rather than living in that world of someday. This is about moving past the planning and the dreaming and actually doing the work. It's a perfect topic to inspire us as we head into the weekend with a renewed sense of purpose. Where is your kid headed after high school? We are from Carpool to college to accomplished educators, college and career consultants, and parents who guide families through the entire journey from freshman year planning to senior years success. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. And with that, I'm going to turn it over to our incredible guests to finish up the week for us. So, doctor Albert Bramonte, thank you again for being here. I look forward to what you got for us today on this vital topic. Well, thank you again, Adam Braving me. I'm so happy to be here. Absolutely, I'm to share the week with you. So the one thing and when I've seen the incredible word of someday, how many times if you said to years old, you know, someday I'm going to write my book, or someday I'm going to do this project, or someday I'm gonna work. I'm there, the idea here, and I'm going to disrupt you by saying that I don't it'll never get done. That that's just starting the truth about it. If you keep with that mantra on someday, it'll never get done. So the important thing is to take action, and even. If it's small steps. So start breaking down whatever it is you want to do when every you's saying that I'm not able to do, and break it into steps like small sets. And when you break it down in these steps, start setting yourself putting it on the calendar. Okay, I will do this, step one by this state, step two by the state. Because the important thing is when you put it on your calendar, it becomes real. It's not just a concept, it's a real thing. So and it helps you be accountable. And that's the big thing, is accountability because now by a certain day you have to have it, and you know, of course give or take it if it's not exactly that date. But the important thing is you're taking that actions as it's happening. So you want to live in a state of action, not just you know, living life on the sidelines because and this is gonna I'm gonna get a little haavy for a second here. They a lot of psychologists, you know, worked with people on their deathbed when they're facing you know, their last moments. And the biggest source of anguish is wasn't like, okay, the mistakes that I've made, or the. Fullest decisions I made, or the reckless decisions I made the biggest source of English regret and torture or the missed opportunities what they didn't do. Maybe they didn't take enough vacation, they didn't create something that they were interested in, they didn't go after their life they wanted. So the important thing is to take so I can't stress that enough and by putting it on your calendar. So rather than saying, well, you know, I'm gonna do this, start breaking it down the tesk. And this is going back earlier. Just because I was talking about support system. I mentioned the importance of the support system. This is another way you can leverage that because you can hold each other accountable. So rather than saying I'm gonna do this, you tell each other by what date you know this step will be done by, and then you check in and say, hey, you know today you said you're gonna do this, how is that going. So it keeps that accountability open because that's the only way things are gonna get done if you put it on your calendar as an actual date. Because someday is not one of the seven days of the week. It doesn't exist, and it's it's impossible to do that. So take action. So you don't wind up regretting not doing something. So but I really can stress enough. And I don't mean to do lists because a lot of people have to do lists, but actually calendar. So putting things on your calendar will make it real and it'll create opportunities for you. And I know you know when I first writing my book, I procrastinated for a long time. This is an antidote to procrastination. Actually, by taking action and putting things on your calendar, and it'll raise yourself esteem. You'll feel much better about yourself. I'm more likely to be like a domino effect because now when one thing is done, you're excited. You're going to be more eager to move forward to steps two three and eventually complete the project and then be likely to do more things because it's now a springboard for more things. So really take action. I can't stress that enough, and not to get out of the day. Won't Hi. I'm doctor Lisa Hill, a longtime educator of nearly forty years as a teacher, counselor, professor, and vice principal, and I've seen just about everything public schools can throw at you, and now I'm sharing my tales on my comedy podcast Vice Principal unofficed. It's where school leadership meets laugh out loud. Stories from underwear required, parent teacher conferences yes really, two staff launch confessions, and more. You won't believe. I'm telling it all with humor and a whole lot of heart. I also tackle the serious stuff. Too, like what schools really need to change and those behind the scenes moments no one talks about. So if you're ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even pry a little, but mostly laugh, join me and my ninety year old mom, my unofficial co host on Vice Principal unofficed. New episodes drop bi weekly on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcast bix. Trust me, this is one detention you'll actually look forward. Thank you. Yeah, it's a good reminder true impact happens when we transition from ideas to action. That's just awesome stuff. All week long, this has been This has been great. You've really challenged us to identify things that are little things that can make a huge difference in the work that we do. I really appreciate your your message to us this week, Doctor Bramonte. It's been really awesome. Again, a huge thank you final thank you for this Friday to doctor Albert Bramonte for joining us this week and sharing a lot of your wisdom. Your work is a gift to so many. I really appreciate your time and effort today. Well, thank you you, bet well, Thank you listeners again, have a wonderful Friday, have an even better weekend. The work you do is so so valuable, and there's just only so few that can really do the work, so thank you for being one of the few. We'll be back here again next week with more episodes of your Morning Boost, So thanks again for listening. We will talk with you again next week.